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Old 06-16-2013, 01:49 PM
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Originally Posted by hyperskeptic View Post
And I would back away, slowly, and find someone else to talk to . . . not because I disapprove of what they do in the bedroom, but because anyone who would shoehorn the complexity of her or his own self into a one-dimensional label is likely to be fairly tedious.

I was once at a gathering in college where I met an exchange student from Northern Europe. He introduced himself as an Anti-Zionist. It seemed he had built his whole identity as a human being around opposition to the existence of Israel as a nation.

I found that troubling and slightly pathetic, but mostly I just found it tiresome.
Very well-said. Totally agree!
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