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Old 06-16-2013, 01:18 PM
london london is offline
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Originally Posted by hyperskeptic View Post
Um, no.

It's a matter of priorities, or at least one of emphasis. I don't walk up to people at parties and introduce myself as vanilla, or as straight, or as poly, or anything else. If they ask, I'm more likely to talk about what I am and what I do in the wider world, not in the bedroom: teacher, father, musician . . .

I at least tell them my name first!
I'll say the same again, for some people, what they do in the bedroom is merely a reflection of their wider identity as a D or s type. For them, their kink label is what they feel is the most important information to impart on someone new to give them an indication of what to expect. I don't, purely because my personality is more in contention with my kink label than complimentary.
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