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Old 06-16-2013, 06:43 AM
london london is offline
Join Date: May 2013
Location: UK - land of the free
Posts: 1,635

It's not needless. As I said before, my relationship with a Dom will always be different to that with someone vanilla. It's a helpful label. If you aren't like me where you have two different types of relationships with people, probably not, but for me, the word vanilla is extremely beneficial in quickly summarising my relationship with someone. But most of the vanilla guys I associate with are comfortable with being vanilla. Maybe that's the difference. If you're uncomfortable with being vanilla, you probably would see it as an insult regardless of how it was said.
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