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Old 06-15-2013, 11:53 PM
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It's only a value statement if you subscribe to the belief that link is better than vanilla. If you believe that a kinky relationship with a power exchange is inherently superior to a relationship without any such dynamic. I don't believe that at all, so when I describe a relationship or person as vanilla, i'm just describing the nature of the relationship. Only someone who is actively seeking for one relationship style to be declared better than the other would read into that.
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