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Old 06-15-2013, 04:19 PM
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And some of the most kinky guys I know basically think people in M/s relationships are deluded and often dangerous. They are vanilla.
I can't tell if you are intentionally dodging the conversation or if we are just not connecting at all.

Let me put it plainly, maybe we can get there: In the situation you described, what *exactly* do you mean by "vanilla".

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My comparison to monogamy was more about how some people in alternative lifestyles claim that their choice to go against the grain shows some sort of superior enlightenment.
Which is sort of what we were talking about, but when it comes to the actual language being used. Like, we were talking about the term "vanilla" specifically... right? "Monogamy" isn't a term which inherently comes with a value judgment.
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