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Old 06-14-2013, 03:56 PM
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OK Cupid worked for me. I met my gf (4 1/2 years into relationship), and bf (1 1/2 years relationship) there. They were both above 90% matches with me there, and it's been wonderful.

I also met some fun people to date for a while, some one night stands, and then there were 100s of arseholes to whom I never bothered responding.

Back in '99 when my ex h and I first "opened up," he was OK with a 3some, me getting a gf and him getting the same gf. He didnt want me to consider getting a bf. Even though I pointed out the hypocrisy of the one penis policy, he stood by it til the gf he found concurred. (One more reason I broke up with him, but that's another rant.)

So, your wife has a one vagina policy... ugh.
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Mags (poly, F, 61) loving miss pixi (poly, F, 39) since January 2009, living together since 2013
also loving Punk (42, M) since Oct 2015 (he has recently downgraded us to friends)
"Master," (mono, 34), miss pixi's Dom for 2 years
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