The realization that my husband was missing something my boyfriend offers came as I got to know my bf more and more. Both men are very similar. Both strong men physically and mentally. Honest, trustworthy, loving, and I could go on and write a book. The difference is my husband is a loud rowdy individual. He tends to want to talk about everything.. he will push me. While my boyfriend is more like me. He allows me to process and do things my way. Oh trust me he will push when needed in our relationship but he is not like my husband who will push me off into the deepend beyond my comfort zone.
Once in a while I need peace in my life a partner who is a solid force willing to have my back
. Who allows me to figure it out my own way. Yet everyonce in a while I need a shove off the cliff or challenged.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 50/50 split of time between my two husbands.