Originally Posted by kittenkittykat
Well she and I were talking and she said we need to sit down and discuss how things would be if there were to be an end of our relationship. Personally, I said I feel like we would need to devise a co-parenting plan as I can't fully walk away from a child that I gave birth too. My mom completely abandoned us as children and it's not something I could ever do.
Surely the baby would be yours and the husbands? I think the fact that it is all being arranged around her pretty much confirms she sees you as the baby maker. She wants the baby and they probably don't want you. Please don't try for a baby with these people, it will cause ALL sorts of hell for you.