Originally Posted by Dagferi
I agree with others. If you do not want your relationship to change do not go any further.
Trust me my whole life has been turned upside down.
My open relationship has turned my friends' worlds upside-down more than my own. I'm used to my life. Other people have to ask what's going on. I've gotten everything from, "I just don't see the point of you being married if you're not having kids" to "how can you call it a "relationship" if you only see each other a few times per year".
I'm like, "Don't you have to pick up your kid from your ex's place now" and "So when is your boyfriend coming to visit from the UK again?"