Originally Posted by nycindie
I don't feel like shit over a word someone uses. And no one "makes me" feel anything.
I simply point out why the word "vanilla" is irksome if someone uses it.
I will also point out how ridiculous it is to say "asshat" instead of "asshole." I will never understand why people started saying that. The fact that it became part of the lexicon perplexes and bugs me to no end, and I would like to ban its use from now on. I can see why someone would be acting like an asshole, but why the fuck would someone be a hat for an ass?
I think "asshat" means you wear your ass as a hat... meaning you're a "shithead". Sort of like "foot in mouth". I think, I don't know. Just guessing at a possible meaning of "asshat".