Originally Posted by lili
What's wrong with the word is exactly this. It's makes you feel like shit, and it makes kinky people seem like asshats.
I don't feel like shit over a word someone uses. And no one "makes me" feel anything.
I simply point out why the word "vanilla" is irksome if someone uses it.
I will also point out how ridiculous it is to say "asshat" instead of "asshole." I will never understand why people started saying that. The fact that it became part of the lexicon perplexes and bugs me to no end, and I would like to ban its use from now on. I can see why someone would be acting like an asshole, but why the fuck would someone be a hat for an ass?