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Old 06-13-2013, 04:52 PM
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Originally Posted by Hetaera View Post
I don't get what's wrong with vanilla anway? Someone who's into BDSM told me she'd never go back to vanilla. WTF? I'm not sure if what I do is vanilla but I sure as hell like it...guess I'm lame b/c I don't want to be flogged?
Nothing wrong at all with not being into kink, but the word "vanilla" connotes "plain and boring." I prefer to say I am "non-kinky" or a "non-kinkster" over "vanilla."

Do an advanced search for "vanilla" and you'll find a thread where we discussed this.
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