Originally Posted by lili
What's wrong with the word is exactly this. It's makes you feel like shit, and it makes kinky people seem like asshats.
"Vanilla" does no such thing. It's just a word.
I find that most people "seem like asshats" regardless of whether or not they are "kinky". The word "vanilla" does not describe that condition. "Shit for brains" DOES describe that condition.