Originally Posted by Hetaera
I don't get what's wrong with vanilla anway? Someone who's into BDSM told me she'd never go back to vanilla. WTF? I'm not sure if what I do is vanilla but I sure as hell like it...guess I'm lame b/c I don't want to be flogged?
What's wrong with the word is exactly this. It's makes you feel like shit, and it makes kinky people seem like asshats.