Originally Posted by lili
(Although, I do want to keep in mind that I'd rather not create another word like "vanilla", with all its inherent negative connotations.)
I don't get what's wrong with vanilla anway? Someone who's into BDSM told me she'd never go back to vanilla. WTF? I'm not sure if what I do is vanilla but I sure as hell like it...guess I'm lame b/c I don't want to be flogged?