As far as, her having more children that isn't a possibility given that she's 46 and has had a partial hystercytomy. We did have a pretty lengthy discussion tonight as to the fact that I want my children to know the truth. And for me the truth is they have two mommies and a daddy that loves them beyond belief. I also was able to addres my concern about having a child they may not look like their chid and more like me and the fact of planning on breastfeeding if we are in Walmart or something I am not going to hesitate in saying things like mommies here baby it's ok. They seemed to take it really well.