Thread: What to say
View Single Post
  #21  
Old 06-13-2013, 01:10 AM
lili lili is offline
Member
 
Join Date: Feb 2012
Location: USA
Posts: 26
Default

Talk it out. Go to counseling. Wait for either the bad blood to disappear (there is obviously bad blood) or for the relationship to end, which seems likely. Don't bring a child into that. Lies create this kind of tension and drama and bring out the worst in people. Find a poly friendly counselor and talk about coming out, stopping the lies. COMMUNICATE TO THEM ABOUT THIS, maybe not so much strangers on the webz. Don't have a kid yet. As a child who comes from a troubled home, I am begging you, wait to have this child. My 2 cents.
Reply With Quote