Vasectomies are great if you're 100% certain you don't want kids. If you're 99.9% certain, not so much.
BP, I absolutely love the story of your life and your writing. Thank you so much for sharing. Now I feel like I've said that before, but it's worth saying twice.
Me: 39 straight male in a V with
Wife: Kay - mono female - married 16 years
LDR girlfriend: Susan - poly female - 2.5 year relationship
Stakes - very intimate friend