Originally Posted by beatleangel
I really don't know where to begin with it all, lol.
OKCupid.com is a dating site that is very poly-friendly. Each of you should have a profile up, linking to the other. You don't have to have pics, or you can have pics that don't show your face. Go check it out and search for profiles with the word "polyamory" or "polyamorous" in them to get some ideas about how to present yourself.