Crux and I have been going through the some of the same lately. IMO, you can't move forward without communication. Even if I'm to the "I don't want to talk about it anymore" part Crux pursues for resolution. That works for US where it may not work for you.
It's just me, my ramblings and the elevator music in my head.
Me: bi, reformed wild-child turned mom and house maid LOL
Crux: straight/hypersexual, possibly mono?
BC: our son, 5 years
CM: second son 9 months.
Mouse: girlfriend! Status new, feelings not so much.