Originally Posted by ChaiLatteWriter
Yes, I said I would wait a few years, so I did go back on my own word. Several years is my timeframe because that's how long my serious relationships have lasted before other issues got in the way.
Splitting hairs. It doesn't matter how long you personally think you need to wait before having sex with someone (if ever), or when you share your diary with them (if ever), or when you tell them that you believe you are the reincarnation of Jesse James (I'd get that one looked at though). You get to decide these things for yourself.
NOW I will say that you seem to hold an extreme viewpoint on either sex or trust (or both). For your own sake I would suggest being ever vigilant in learning the nature of your feelings on these matters and being honest with yourself about their root motivation.