Originally Posted by Hetaera
I was not suggesting to ignore this issue forever & hope it will go away. Just take a step back for now & revisit it in a bit. Unless the baby is due any day, it sounds like you have a little time to figure this out. It also sounds like she has some control issues which I find disturbing.
That's not what I got from your first post, gracias for the clarification.
I'm not familiar with the OP but it sounds like there might be some D/s stuff going on. Certainly there is some kind of power struggle in play. Before a child discussion even STARTS I would hope they figure that stuff out first.