Thanks for that. Others have actually said the same to me, but it's usually accompanied by, "do whats best for yourself and get out of a situation that is making you unhappy." I know that's not what YOU said, however. Bottom line is that I am not happy, but I am most definently in love with this man and have been for the last seven years. We have a life, a home, everything together, alot invested and I love my life and my home as well as him. I just have a hard time coming to terms with sharing that.