"but he has to know"
As soon as you start assuming instead of ensuring that you are explicitly stating-you invite communication issues.
In poly, these sorts of issues are compounded by number of people involved.
I advise having a very explicit and point blank conversation with your bf FIRST.
I (dead serious here) would run screaming for the hills if someone told me they were poly and thought their partner "must know" ANYTHING. No way I would date them. Just reading that line sent my "drama-magnet warning sign" into high alert.
"Love As Thou Wilt"
Last edited by LovingRadiance; 06-10-2013 at 02:42 AM.