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Old 01-24-2010, 08:27 PM
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Originally Posted by MonoVCPHG View Post
I don't quite understand why you refer to your new girlfriend as mono? You identify as poly and she has a boyfriend. There's nothing mono about this...or am I completely confused?
You aren't confused, he or she may be, but you are not Mon.

She isn't poly or mono... You said it well... let me go find it real quick...

I do not associate having affairs with polyamorous behaviour, nor do I associate them with monogamous behaviour...I associate them with destructive behaviour. This is my experience, my observation, my opinion. Would I be a child molester if my partner was? No. Am I directly hurting that child? No…but turning a blind eye to that would be hurting that child. Turning a blind eye to that would be perpetuating and enabling that behaviour. Nothing would be learned and lives would be damaged.
There it is!!!
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