Originally Posted by Sekhmet
I don't think you're being harsh; I think you're being realistic. Q has a past of meth addiction too. We got together when he was only a year or so clean (I think?) but it's not a path I'd recommend to everyone. I don't know what you should do, but it looks like you're going in slowly and with eyes wide open, which is the best way to do it, IMHO. Good luck!
Thank you! Yes, we're definitely going into all of this slowly and making sure we are seeing things for what they are and not being blinded by any desires.
Me: 32, bi, poly female
J: 28, straight, poly male