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Old 06-09-2013, 01:40 AM
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My advice for your date, and whenever you do make plans to meet someone, is to just let having fun be your goal. Don't date people with the goal of "auditioning" them to see if they are potentially "relationship material" or going to have a bigger role in your life. Relax and date just to meet people and get to know them, to do enjoyable things, and for the fun of it. Enjoy another human being's company and don't take it too seriously.
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An excellent blog post on hierarchy in polyamory:
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