Neither my wife or gf want to hear details, but they do like reading about fantasies I write about the other.
I, on the other hand, can't ever get enough details. I got to see some pictures of an encounter once. So exciting!
Me: 40 straight male in a V with
Wife: Kay - mono female - married 18 years
LDR girlfriend: Susan - poly female - 3 year relationship
Stakes - very intimate friend
Ironically named Farmgirl - local interest