I do not believe in introducing children to a new relationship. At least 6 months and the new SO should not be suddenly there all the time. Meaning I would NOT do a sleepover while your kid is visiting.
Murf met my kids 6 months into our relationship. His first meeting as on neutral ground. We took the kids trick or treating. They spent maybe an hour or two together. We slowly increased the time the spent around my kids. Now they go with me to spend overnights at Murf's house.
We slowly increase the amount of PDA's the kids saw. They didn't blink an eye. My boys are 10 and 6. The only kids that had an issue has been my oldest who is 19. But he is out on his own.
Tomorrow Murf is going with hubby and I to my youngest sons Kindergarten graduation.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 60/40 split of time. Only due to Murf's and Butch's crappy work schedules.