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Old 06-05-2013, 03:32 PM
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There's no lying in poly!

Originally Posted by Marcus View Post
Well, that's not even remotely true. Unless there are no people involved in a relationship there is always a chance someone is going to be dishonest... which doesn't do anything to change it from being polyamory (or any other relationship arrangement).
Come now, Marcus. I thought it was obvious from my other comments I meant there *should* be no lying in poly. Complete ruthless honesty is required to make it work.

Also, I imagined Tom Hanks screaming that in A League of Their Own. "There's no crying in baseball"
Originally Posted by nycindie View Post
Omigosh, I thought the same exact thing when I saw that in Mags's sig.

Great minds...
Well, that is what I was referencing, of course. In the movie, a ball player WAS crying, the coach required her to stop. Same here. Stop lying, even though you already did.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley

Mags (poly, F, 62)
Pixi (poly, F, 40) together since 2009
My bf Kahlo (poly-friendly, M, 45) since August 2017
Master, (mono, M, 36), Pixi's bf for 5 years
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