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Old 06-05-2013, 02:50 PM
LadySFI LadySFI is offline
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The advice here is good. You are used to being mono and you are approaching this with a mono mentality. It is not bad that you want to keep seeing him, it is not bad if you enjoy sex with him. You just need to be open and honest about it.

I had typed quite a bit that reads almost exactly like what nycindie said (glad I went to read some more and saw it). She hit the nail on the head.

Either way, I am glad you decided to share with your husband. Lying in poly makes a giant mess.
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