Are you "poly" (amorous) ?
Do you BELIEVE that you are capable of 'loving' more than a single person (non-family or pet
) and that by doing that it would add positive dimensions to your and their lives ?
Only you know the answer to that - right ? But it's not really a difficult question if you know yourself.
But the whole primary/secondary thing ad naseum really is about security and knowing you are truly loved and protected by SOMEONE.
If the earthquake hits - are you going to be 'first' in line to be saved ?
Or are you the type that feels (and takes pride in) the fact that you're quite capable of digging yourself out and failing that that you'll trust to the universe that it will provide some kind soul to help you and that that type of person might well be the one you would want to bond with?
Only you can define these things