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Old 06-04-2013, 03:03 AM
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Originally Posted by GalaGirl;20458is1
Love is not enough for a realtionship to be HEALTHY. There must be self-respect (you to you) and respect (him to you, you to him).
Yes, I've said this quite often here. Gee, Gala, it seems you've been quoting me more and more lately. Thanks for the acknowledgement.


OP, I applaud you for knowing so clearly what you want and having the presence of mind to recognize when it's time to move on. You seem to have a good sense of self, which is impressive.
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An excellent blog post on hierarchy in polyamory:
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