Welcome to our forum.
I see three of the threads started by LadySFI:
New in TX
Someone tell me it works
My husband is moving faster than I am!
I have read two of them so I am somewhat familiar with your situation. Sounds like you live quite a ways away from LadySFI. That's rough; any chance the two of you will move closer together?
Hope we can be of some help; let us know of the questions and concerns that you have.