How do I come out to my gf that im Poly?
Been in a mono relationship for 9 years and I have realized over my time I have been the happiest in my relationship when I was with other women as well but when I told her it was considered cheating of course. But now im seeing another woman again and Ive never felt more in love with my gf but i have strong feelings for my new friend... I know im wrong for not telling my gf but this is how im happy and after reading up on polyamory I see there is nothing wrong with what i feel for them two. How do I tell my gf that without her thinking I dont love her?