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Old 05-31-2013, 12:24 PM
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There is a lot of reading to be done here on the topic of jealousy. Also on the morethantwo website.

You made a bad mistake! He gave you his blessing to fuck Mike but then you did, and didn't tell him, before or immediately afterwards? Gosh.

There's no lying in Poly! Lies of omission are just as bad. Be an adult, tell your h the truth, and work on your trust and jealousy issues so that you can both manage polyamory properly. See my sig.
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Mags (poly, F, 62) loving Pixie (poly, F, 40) since January 2009, living together since 2013
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