Yes, she is heavily into the NRE. We did have a good talk today, and she asked for me to let her create her own boundaries - but we will work on getting a schedule together as well, to make sure our daughter gets the time she needs. One thing she sugggested was to have a babysitter once a week so we could both go out, and that way we would have an extra day that we would both be with our daughter. I like that thought...so we are working on ideas.
I'm very hopeful that we will work this out well. There is a lot of respect and love from all parties here.