Thanks for the ideas...definitely gives me stuff to think about. I like the Big Love idea, and recently someone I know released a new book on polyamory. I did mention it to my husband who simply thought it was cool that someone we knew had written a book...I'll pick up a copy. Sounds like a great starting point.
@Kevin - The link you gave was also helpful...baby steps, for sure! And there is NO WAY IN HELL I would give myself the go-ahead without his knowledge and support. My top interest is to NOT hurt him!
Really glad I signed up here...everyone seems quite real and reading about other people's experiences is pretty awesome so far.