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Old 01-22-2010, 10:41 PM
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It always helps me to talk to my partners. Remember that poly doesn't work unless there's a lot of communication. Even when it sounds silly to me, it helps to get it out in the open and to hear out loud what they think will happen. And as poly people, we have a tendency to think we shouldn't be afraid, which is stupid because we're human, too. Of course you fear losing the person you love, everyone does. The important thing is to find a way to work through it or it will snowball.
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