Originally Posted by redsirenn
"trying to believe" vs. KNOWING as a result of trust are very different.
Trying to convince is along those same lines.... I strongly believe in everything people have said here regarding trust. It looks like there is alot of communicating that you two still need to do that is completely unrelated to being poly.
You are absolutely right, and unfortunately while I'm trying to tell myself that I need to rebuild the trust I'm also finding out new information (not from her) that she's yet to tell me. But I'm committed to trying to make this work.