Has your h tried the free dating site ok cupid? It is poly friendly and that is where I found both my lovers. (And dated many others, had some other long term relationships.)
So refreshing to see a "personal ad" here that is NOT a couple looking for their mythical HBB!
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
The single biggest problem with communication is the illusion that it has taken place. --Shaw
me: Mags, female, pansexual, 59, loving and living with
miss pixi, female, pansexual, 37