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Old 05-28-2013, 03:01 AM
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Originally Posted by NatalieRose View Post
I came out to him about a week ago . . . I had not begun a sexual relationship with man #2 before coming out.
Not sure if I'm reading this correctly. Do you mean that after you came out as poly to your husband only a week ago, you then began a sexual relationship with this other man?

Originally Posted by NatalieRose View Post
I know it rarely works when 1 person is monogamous and the other poly.
Who told you that? I think that is a myth. There have been/are many people here in poly/mono arrangements, and there is a Yahoo group for monos in poly relationships, and other resources. It is not so rare or disastrous as you may believe.
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