I am glad all 3 of you had a nice hangout night together.
I'm still not understanding why Q can't use condoms. Earlier you said he had a hard time cumming with one on, but then when he left his piercing in, things went better.
I am sure with practice he'd be able to enjoy himself. And even if he can't cum in her vagina (every time), he can fuck her with the condom on, and then pull out and cum from someone's hand or her mouth, or whatever, ultimately.
Putting you through all this effort around hormonal bc or, getting himself a vasectomy when you might want a baby... sigh. Kind of selfish, imho.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
me: Mags, 59, living with:
miss pixi, 37