Originally Posted by Ssandra
How long have you been in the relationship?
A friend of mine put it very well...
If a couple is monogamous and gets pregnant or has a small child, nobody would accept them saying "you know what, being monogamous is too difficult right now. Better open things up until things are more relaxed".
Why would that be different for being poly? My opinions and orientation (for lack of a better word) don't just change just because I'm pregnant.
Three and a half years total. A year before she got pregnant, then through the pregnancy, and now the little boy is almost two.
I agree, your friend put it very well.
The major players. Me, 30ish bi female. Gia, girlfriend of 4+ years. Clay, boyfriend/dom. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eddie, roommate & fwb.
The supporting cast. Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler. Dexter, Gia's lover. Helen, Eric's lover. Izzy and Nikki, Clay's partners. Liam, Eddie's husband.