You don't have to get into the nitty gritty with a 4 yo. You answer honestly but simply.
You just tell her Pixi is Karma's girlfriend. If there is more questions then you answer them at a 4 yo level.
My kids are 10 and 6. Honestly they kind of just rolled with it. My 10 yo has asked a few extra questions. I answered honestly and in a manner he could understand. When he asked how I can love Murf and their dad Butch. I asked if he loved all three of our dogs. He said yes. I said do you love them the same. He said no. Then I asked do you love one more than another. He answered no. Then I said you can love people the same way.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 50/50 split of time between my two husbands.
Last edited by Dagferi; 05-25-2013 at 02:45 AM.