resirenn, I think that's what the TNG-style groups (the social group here, plus the various external groups set up for that purpose) are set up for, if you want to focus on physically younger physically poly people.
Tend to agree with the idea that you can meet all sorts of maturity levels, independent of age. Getting older sometimes doesn't automatically imply getting any the wiser! I tend to put amount of practical experience over physical age when looking for "how to" information, but as Raven gives in her example, you need to not take everything that someone says as automatic good advice just cos they've done a lot of it.
Reminds me of the quote "Giving up smoking is easy - I've done it hundreds of times!"
"Listen, or your tongue will make you deaf." - Native American Proverb