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Old 05-23-2013, 08:55 PM
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. . . it will help my hubbys confidence if he can put me in sub space again first. I think because of how important and instrumental it was in our developing relationship, he has to know he can still take me there before my bf does.
Just curious - why is your husband so insecure that he needs to be first? Don't you think it would be more constructive if your hubs examines his insecurity and develops his self-confidence in all areas of his life, out in the real world, etc.? Without making the sex you have into a contest in which he must compete?
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