Originally Posted by BoringGuy
Well technically it's possible for a male to experience erectile dysfunction yet still be horny and want sex with men/women/whatever. But yeah that is pretty twisted that people aspire to a future where the "ideal" is for one's partner to be as miserable as oneself.
Why the OP wants to be part of this, i do not understand.
Yes, you're right. ED does not equal lack of libido. I misspoke. Growing out of any interest in sex... when does that happen for a guy? In his 80s? Death?
As I said, I was in this exact same scenario once, bi guy, jealous wife. I was however, finally allowed to meet her, and after I did, that is when wifey brought the veto hammer down, and hubby was told he could only have men, and no feelings allowed! I was actually so repulsed by their dynamic I was glad to be well out of it all.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
There's no lying in polyamory!
I'm a 58 year old woman with 2 partners:
miss pixi, my live-in gf, 36 (together since Jan '09)
Ginger, bf, 61, married, lives nearby (together since Jan '12)