Welcome to our forum.
Just curious, do you have any kids already, or is this one with Jess going to be your first? If so, buckle up and hang on tight, a newborn is a tremendous challenge. It will help to have three adults pitching in.
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Your story will be well-read there.
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or General Poly Discussions board
It is good to have you aboard.