Damn it, he saw this before I got to talk to him. He said he's offended. Of course, he's working and I'm out with my cousin so we can't talk about it now.
He did text and say that ditching the condoms is not the original or main reason he mentioned a vas.
Me: 30yo wife
Q: 29yo husband of 5 years
(The Divine) Miss M: 27yo mutual friend, GF of Q just recently